Jan Denise, author, speaker, relationships & self-worth consultant

Perspective …

Perspective …

Feeling what we cannot see helps us to keep what we can see in perspective. … More

Only love …

Only love …

We were born with love. We will die with love. And in between, we need not worry about gaining or losing anything else. … More

Want to connect?

Want to connect?

The most important thing you can do to connect on a date (before or after marriage) is simply be real. Make it your priority–do it before you sit down to a seven-course dinner, watch a movie, or exhaust yourself. Look into each other’s eyes, talk from the deepest place inside of you, share what you’re afraid to share, frolic, kiss, snuggle, and be still. Connect!… More

We can remember …

We can remember …

I believe that there is a deep knowing within us. I believe we know the sanctity and oneness of untainted love. I believe we know the peace of our mother’s womb–not merely a physical womb, but a spiritual womb, where all our needs were seamlessly met.

And although this knowing may be lost to our consciousness, it is not lost. I believe we can remember.

I believe we can bring our unconscious knowing into our consciousness … and that we can do that by letting go of our false sense of security.

The human fear that launched our clinging is the only thing that can keep us from remembering that love is all we need.… More