Sitting on the dock the other day, I decided to lie back and close my eyes … one of my favorite things to do. As I lay there, I began to hear sounds that I hadn’t heard with my eyes open. My hearing became more sensitive, because for the moment I was unable to see. I heard the birds I hadn’t seen, the ones hidden in the trees. I heard the bait fish just beneath the water’s surface. And, I heard my heart in the stillness.
Lying back with my eyes closed, I was more receptive, more open to what I could not see. And I became more aware of my oneness with what was around me when I was feeling it, rather than merely looking at it.
When I opened my eyes again, I held on to the feeling. And, I saw more than I had seen before. I still heard the birds in the trees, and now I could see them. I still heard the little fish beneath the surface, and now I could see their motion on top of the water. I still heard my heart, still felt the oneness with all of my life.
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