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Dear Friends … Happy Day After
With the onslaught of hearts and Cupid’s arrows, you may find yourself trying to conjure up romance, or feeling deprived of it. Romance is like kissing, though; it can be shallow without love. Love, on the other hand, has more depth than we sometimes dare to explore. Ah, but what could be more romantic than exploring the depths of love?
And we can do that with or without a partner. There is deep peace in solitude. It’s a wonderful opportunity to discover the depths of you, as well as love.
For me, that looks like sitting quietly in the middle of a field or at the edge of the water, where the only place to go is within, beyond the noise and clutter of the ego, to feel the divinity. My words fall way short of feeling it … and so do Cupid’s arrows.
Nobody else can give you what’s in there. But what’s there makes for a very happy every day!
Love and hugs,
PS: My sweetheart spent the night in his equine clinic on Valentine’s Day because of a complication with surgery (he’s a veterinarian). And here’s what I want to say about that, “I’m grateful.” Love is every day … or not at all.… More
A fall can help us crack our armor and leave our ego behind …
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Yours
Love is ours. It’s what we’re made of. And it’s everything good!… More
You are somebody’s TEN!
In desperate moments, we just want somebody to have dinner with…but in our heart of hearts, we want to be cherished. We want to be completely known and loved by somebody who thinks we’re perfect.
For years I’m sure there were people who thought I was way too picky or idealistic. Some of them gave words to their exasperation, “What do you think you’re going to do with Mr. Perfect when you find him? Isn’t he going to want somebody perfect?”
I wasn’t looking for anybody else’s idea of perfection, though. The 35-year-old on the cover of “Fortune” will likely go for somebody younger…OK, maybe taller and richer, too. But, hey, 35 isn’t perfect for me. And maybe it isn’t perfect for you, either.
There is somebody out there who is perfect for you, though, and you can trust that you are perfect for him (or her), as well.
When Ann Weber, professor of psychology at the University of N.C. at Chapel Hill, first told me, “A five is going to be most happy with a five,” I cringed. Assigning a number — a five (out of 10) — to humans in search of love seemed cold.
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The truth to live by …
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