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Dear Friends …
The only thing I’m giving anybody for Christmas this year is a Happy Me!
Everybody gets the best gift ever–a happy wife, daughter, friend, hostess! The only thing better is a happy THEM. But I can’t give them that.
We can’t really make somebody else happy. Even if we could, we’d sacrifice our own happiness in the process. And while that might sound noble on the surface, the only way to sacrifice our own joy is to betray our own truth. Nothing noble in that box!
Let’s choose to feel happy and live happy. And let’s trust others to join us.
Always in love,… More
Don’t Reduce Your Wish List to What Somebody Else Can Give You …
If you want to order the cheapest thing on the menu or take a budget vacation, go ahead; but don’t resort to practical wishes. What do you really want for Christmas?
Now, tell him, tell everybody. Don’t depend on anybody else to deliver it, though.
I remember finally realizing that it was okay to buy myself jewelry, after falling for the fallacy that somebody else was supposed to buy it for me … because they thought I deserved it. Well, guess what? You deserve it, whether he knows it or not; and he’s unlikely to know it before you do.
We’re not talking about entitlement or arrogance. We’re talking about realizing who you are; and connecting with your wishes is a beautiful way to catch a glimpse of the real you! When you trade your dream for what somebody else thinks of you, or what somebody else can afford, or what somebody else customarily picks out for you, you get a distorted view of YOU.
Pretend you have a fairy godmother who’s ready to make an appearance, which means you’re ready for her to make an appearance! A fairy godmother is nothing more than you coming to your own rescue. Now, look through her eyes at you.… More
Trust the results of your best effort …
and you’ll know what to do with them! … More
Do you know how good you are?
Why do so many women go for the “bad boy,” or the hard-to-get guy? Because they’re still trying to prove that they’re good enough, still trying to win approval. And they think, “If HE would love me, then I’d know I was okay.”
Note: YES, you can apply this concept to both genders. And you can also apply it to rescue missions, as well as the hard to get.… More
To be YOU is to be LOVE is to be HAPPY!
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