And I’ve never been so excited about any program, ever!
I know the science, the art, and the spirit of love more than I ever have … and I’m more certain than I’ve ever been of what it takes for you to live your fairytale. Don’t get soft on me, though; the fairytale is a pilgrimage to love. And while I will guide you to the sunrise of a new beginning, you have to follow my lead.
You don’t have to invite me to the wedding … but you could invite me to perform the ceremony!
What makes me so bold now? Click to Read More
Talk to Jan Live ... to discover the fairytale with YOUR name on it!
You can consult with Jan in person in Anthony, FL, or by phone (audio, Skype, or FaceTime). Call/text (386) 299-6256 or e-mail for more information or to schedule a consultation. Details for Paid Consultation
SINGLES AND COUPLES
June 29
Saturday, 10 AM - 4 PM
Sam & Jan's in Ocala, FL
Cost: $60 or two for $100
Includes: refreshments, lunch, and one of Jan's books
Hiding something keeps more than rejection at bay. It keeps self-love, as well as intimacy, at bay. Risk rejection for the love you want.
When you have it, rejection won’t phase you. You’ll still love yourself. … More
“I hate to give up on our relationship, but to stay feels like giving up on my dreams,” writes a reader.
To walk away from what we hoped — and promised — would last forever is one of the most heart-wrenching breaks we can make. It feels as though we’re cutting off a piece of ourselves … and we struggle desperately to decide if it’s right and if it’s necessary.
How do we know?
Ask yourself: What would I do if I weren’t afraid? Will I be better off next week, next month and next year if I stay?
Don’t kid yourself. You don’t really want to feed your fear. And if staying doesn’t serve you, it doesn’t serve your partner either. It’s arrogant to think that a partner needs your pity. He needs love; he doesn’t have to get it from you.
Don’t give up on yourself and don’t give up on your partner, either. If you’re both better off without each other, then give up on the relationship and save yourselves.
Your dreams are a reflection of who you are, or at least they should be. If they’re obsolete, change them. Base them on what you want — not on what somebody else wants for you or what society expects.… More
