Jan Denise, author, speaker, relationships & self-worth consultant

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It was always going to be …

Sometimes we think we should have been able to do it better, faster, or easier. But one step at a time was always going to be the only way to get there. We were always going to have to start from where we were.

And it was always going to be the journey of a lifetime. … More

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Know …

It is in stillness that we transcend time and space. It is in stillness that we find our oneness. It is in stillness that we know the purity of love, our essence.

And to know even for a moment, is to know. … More

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We can’t hold on to both …

Authentic love is my concept of love. It extends far beyond romantic love or even consummate love shared with a life partner.

Love is everything good; it is the force for good. It is pure and resolute, with no self-serving agenda, with no degrees or deviation. It is passion and peace. It is responsibility and freedom, strength and tenderness, rock solid and transparent. It is defenseless and invincible! It is neither pride nor shame. It is fearless, unifying, compassionate, and healing.

It is mine, yours, nobody’s, and everybody’s. It can’t be seen, or touched, or quantified; but it is everywhere. It is everything. It is the only thing that matters. … More