Jan Denise – Page 207

No negative emotion in love …

I can’t choose the stimulus; but I can choose my response to it. And my negative emotion is MY response to the stimulus. But when I see the stimulus relative to my source, I remember that whatever I encounter will serve my highest good.… More

Are you ready to embrace what’s yours?

Amen: With a grateful heart, I receive it.… More

Know what you know …

I love that we can trust what we know. I’m talking about deep knowing of the heart. Let’s trust it, rather than fight it, even when it’s not what we were hoping for. Let’s remember that everything we encounter will serve our highest good … as soon as we allow it to.… More

Let the symptoms lead you to the real issue …

Q: I am in desperate need of some advice. I feel that my marriage is going downhill fast and I want to save it. Let me tell you the story.

A couple of years ago, I accidentally found e-mails that my husband was sending to an old girlfriend he wanted to meet up with. He told her a ton of lies about our relationship. I confronted him, and everything has been going OK. But now he is meeting women online and talking “personal” talk to them. He sits in the living room with me and talks to them. When I ask who he is talking to, he lies. I know, because I have the passwords for his accounts and can see what is being said.

I don’t know what to do. We have been married 12 1/2 years. I still love him and I forgave him; however, I don’t trust him anymore and I am scared that he is going to find someone else and leave.

Can you please give me some advice as to what I can do to help us reconnect and save our marriage?

A: The first step is to talk with your husband in a totally open way, the way you might talk to me or to a best friend.… More