What you’re most afraid to say is often what you most need to say. What you don’t feel like doing may be the door to freedom.
When you don’t feel like kissing, you may need to kiss until you feel like it. You may have to fumble your words in order to start a dialogue. Fumble your little heart out.
Don’t stay stuck. Don’t dig your heels in, without even realizing that you are. Do something! Jump and let him catch you. Let her catch you.
Trust yourself. Trust love. Trust your partner.
PS: If you’re thinking that you can’t trust your partner, maybe you don’t really have one. You can change that.