Jan Denise, author, speaker, relationships & self-worth consultant

Our perfection is love …

Our perfection is love …

Our perfection lies in accepting our imperfection. The moment we drop our defenses (read: fear), there is only love. And love is perfect. Love needs no defense.

Still it seems most of us exhaust ourselves trying to be pretty enough, rich enough, sexy enough, or educated enough to feel, if not perfect, at least good enough. When we let go of our security blanket of choice and accept what is, we also realize that it far exceeds anything we hoped to conjure up.… More

Do you want to loosen your grip?

Do you want to loosen your grip?

When we cling to a partner, we don’t cling out of love; we cling out of fear. When we’re healthy and free, we want a healthy and free partner. We’re not afraid to let go.

We can’t imagine that there’s a happier relationship out there for our partner; but if there is, we want him to find it. And that kind of love allows us and the relationship to blossom!… More