Jan: Maybe we have a lot of pictures of you holding me??
Sam: You’re the little girl. You can help men understand that—that women are baby girls.
Jan: Women might have a tougher time with that than men do.
Sam: I know.
Jan: My baby boy!
Male or female, we are our most lovable when we are vulnerable. Don’t shy away from it, don’t be afraid to revel in it. It won’t weaken you; it will strengthen you. We don’t have to choose between baby vulnerable and adult independent, we get to be both.