Don’t look right through you. Pay attention to every detail. And you’ll get to know you the way you want somebody else to know you. You’ll come to love you the way you want somebody else to love you. Then, you’ll know how to love somebody else that way. … More
Ultimate Lesson …
We can be lured by what doesn’t matter. But coming home to love is, indeed, our destiny.… More
We learn to get up by falling down …
When we really want a relationship–or anything else–we have to risk falling down. Most of us have attached some stigma to the fall, especially when somebody is watching. But we can’t learn to walk, or dance, or fly without “falling down.” We can’t learn to get up without falling down. And we need to know how to get up!
Because no matter how hard we try to avoid it, we will take a fall. We can learn to do it well, with grace and honesty.
When we let go of the notion that we should be able to pull off the happily-ever-after without some rough landings, we’re free to walk, leap, run, and fly. We’re free to be who we are! Somebody else can tune into us! And that IS the fairytale … two people who truly know each other, who aren’t denying the pitfalls, but rather learning to navigate through them! Two people who face each other and life with open eyes, whether they just landed in the dirt or they’re soaring through blue skies.
If you want happily-ever-after skies, learn to hit the dirt and brush it off, without letting it define you. Learn to get up! Way up!… More
Let summer free you of …
You’ll decide for yourself what the best of summer is. For me, it’s freedom. Summer is an excuse to ditch the clothes, the formality, and the schedule.
What do you want to be free of in your life? Your relationship?
Maybe the kids keep a lid on your sexuality, maybe HIS routine curbs your creativity, or maybe finances have reined in your generosity. Don’t let anything confine you. Freedom is essential to your joy; because it’s essential to being you!
I won’t tell you to throw the kids out, but change your perception of them–and give them an accurate picture of fun, loving, free you. You don’t have to disregard his routine, but neither do you have to make it yours. If you lose yourself, you’ll both be bored with you. And money has always been relative. When you are grateful for what you have, it becomes enough to share. You don’t need enough to impress people, or feed your ego, or conform.
You don’t have to join a health club to be fit or go to the doctor to be healthy. You don’t have to show up in a new car or even own a car to keep up with anybody else.… More
YOU get to choose …
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Are you finding the sweetness?
Our capacity is based on intensity. And the more intense, the deeper the sweetness to be found … in both joy and pain. That’s why they can both be part of love.… More
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