What you know to be true overrides even what your words and your behavior say about you. But you can’t expect others to know the greatness that lies within. Prospective partners know what you SHOW them. Show them your authentic self. Remove the mask you fashioned to win approval AND let go of the pain you’re carrying because it couldn’t attract true love.
There was never going to be a good enough mask. Trust what you know to be your true self, that spark of divinity within.