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I see you …
You radiate love from the inside out. … More
Dear Friends …
Most of my life, my best eluded me. Did I EVER actually exhaust my effort!?
I realize now that my best isn’t trying until it hurts, or practicing until it’s perfect. It’s not getting older or younger, or honing my skill set. It’s not recruiting the best team.
My best is simply letting go of all the pretense and all my preconceived notions, to be 100 percent authentic. When I can do that, when I can simply be all me, without adding or withholding anything, that IS my best.
The partner of your dreams isn’t looking for perfect facial features. Your biggest-client-ever isn’t looking for the most years of experience, your “standing ovation” isn’t waiting for you to fine-tune your performance. Preparation may score points. But it doesn’t create the inexplicable!
To be our ultimate best, we can’t rely on the physical. We have to trust what we can’t see or measure.
Here’s to our best! It’s always within our reach.… More
Satisfied in Sex … and in Life
According to a recent study, half of married/partnered women are dissatisfied with their sex life … and I’m guessing some of the other half were afraid to admit to it.
Our satisfaction — men’s and women’s — correlates with how much disparity there is between what we have and what we want. What’s not clear is what we really want versus what we’ve been programmed to want.
We can be preoccupied by what the media portrays pretty people as having, or what parents say is appropriate, or what somebody suggested was normal. And conflicting notions alone are enough to make us feel unsettled and dissatisfied.
Before marrying my first husband and having sex for the first time, I thought sex would be a spectacular, mystical experience. I imagined something, without any idea what, equivalent to fireworks, but it was years before I saw anything close. You may have thought you were alone in your disappointment, but I suspect you’re in the majority.
Our imaginations — though they lack details — are fueled by unrealistic love stories on silver screens. And it is no wonder we choose those over the reality that we see in parents and other would-be role models.
The problem with romantic stories — on or off the screen — is that they’re apt to lack practical details.… More
We’ve got this …
No matter what the problem, the situation, the question, love is the answer. And we’ve got it! Let’s keep doing our best to use it.… More
Love flows both ways …
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