Getting to know you is getting to know love. And learning to love you is learning to love all that is … to know oneness.… More
Dear Friends … Going for it is vital
There is nothing to complain about … only something to change or to accept. Let’s not get stuck doing neither!
Let’s do more than talk about what we want. Let’s go for it. Let’s take the risk and play like we can win, knowing that our best IS a win.
There is no peace without that passion; because passion empowers us to be true to our self. With compelling conviction, passion drives us to create, to persevere, and to be our very best self.
YOU are a winner!
In love,… More
Oneness doesn’t require another person …
Being alone without being lonely is part of being a healthy YOU … and a healthy partner. … More
You are innately good … innately love
From the time we learn the word “no,” we begin to get the message that what we would do naturally is “bad.”
As young children, we can’t make a distinction between our behavior and ourselves, so we buy into a lie — the lie that in order to be good enough we have to sit still and be quiet, or look pretty, or SOMETHING. But you know as well as I do that some of the demands we place on children (and ourselves) are more apt to stifle them than make them good.
“Even if you were fortunate enough to grow up in a safe, nurturing environment, you still bear invisible scars from childhood, because from the very moment you were born you were a complex, dependent creature with a never-ending cycle of needs. Freud correctly labeled us ‘insatiable beings.’ And no parents, no matter how devoted, are able to respond perfectly to all of these changing needs,” says Harville Hendrix in his bestselling “Getting the Love You Want.”
We have a fundamental motivation to be accepted, which is why you might jump to defend yourself, your parents, your children (even while reading this). Rejection used to point to a problem that needed our attention, and our survival depended on how sensitive and responsive we were.… More
What do you expect …
When we know who we are, we also know that we are co-creating the life we want. We know love is unfolding. And we trust what we know. … More
Follow symptoms to issue, healing …
Question: I am in desperate need of some advice. I feel that my marriage is going downhill fast and I want to save it. Let me tell you the story.
A couple of years ago, I accidentally found e-mails that my husband was sending to an old girlfriend he wanted to meet up with. He told her a ton of lies about our relationship. I confronted him, and everything has been going OK. But now he is meeting women online and talking “personal” talk to them. He sits in the living room with me and talks to them. When I ask who he is talking to, he lies. I know, because I have the passwords for his accounts and can see what is being said. I don’t know what to do. We have been married 12 1/2 years. I still love him and I forgave him; however, I don’t trust him anymore and I am scared that he is going to find someone else and leave.
Can you please give me some advice as to what I can do to help us reconnect and save our marriage?
Answer: The first step is to talk with your husband in a totally open way, the way you might talk to me or to a best friend.… More
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