Standing alone was always going to be one of the lessons.… More

God’s got us, whether we follow His lead or fight Him every step of the way. He’s not afraid to let us hit bottom, because he knows how the story unfolds. We’re the hero! And, ultimately, we choose love, we find the light. The rest is designed to reveal the hero!

Our resistance may paint the path rocky or rosy; but the light never flickers. We’re going home to love.

With you in love and light,… More

The Reward Theory of Attraction says we are most attracted to those who give us maximum rewards at minimum cost. And four of the most compelling sources of reward are:

Proximity: Frequent contact

Similarity: Shared attitudes, interests, values and experiences

Self-disclosure: Intimate sharing, trust, and knowing

Physical attractiveness: Beauty

But the Expectancy-Value Theory says we weigh the value of the reward against our expectation of success.

My theory, then, is when we know our true value, we go for what we want, with the intention of success.… More