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Choosing to do the “right” thing is simply choosing love over fear. Choosing love is the only way to be authentic. And choosing to be authentic is the only way to be happy.

We get distracted by what we hope will make us happy and lose sight of what will. But happy is a choice we can remember and come home to.… More

Dear Friends,

I have often said that knowing, loving, and being who we are is the work of a lifetime. It’s the only work worth doing. Everything good–including love for life and others–is a byproduct of that. And I am grateful for my life’s work. I’m loving it!

I want to confess, though, that I am challenged in the face of my husband to hold on to me. It’s not because I married the wrong guy 15 years ago. It’s because I’m a woman, and he’s a man. I am not a sexist. I know myself as a woman, though. I cannot know myself apart from that. If I could, perhaps I could also be a staunch feminist.

I am certainly in favor of equality–equal rights and equal pay, equal importance, and equal voice. In searching my entire being, though, body, mind, and spirit, I am programmed differently–not just by society, but by God, our force for good.

Men and women are intended, not to compete, but to complement each other. The differences create a balance in relationship and in society as a whole. And I think one of those differences has me more focused on our relationship than my husband is.… More