If you want something and you’re not making it your reality, look at why.
Do you really want it? Do you want to put forth the effort to get it? Keep it?
Do you believe it’s possible?
Are you behaving as though it’s possible?
Your reality IS what you want!
And when you want something else, instead, you have to believe in it enough to let go of what you have. You have to believe in it enough to behave as though it’s possible.
And in doing so, you change your reality.