Ever feel like, “And I was nice to her”? Sometimes our nice is expecting nice in return. It’s “I like you,” with an unspoken “If you like me.”
We talk so much about “nice” that we assume it’s appropriate and loving. But “nice” is only loving if it’s unconditional, just as love is only love if it’s unconditional.
If we have to be less nice to be more honest and loving, so be it. We can move forward, if we start where we are!
Love smiles,