Infatuation lures us. But it’s not merely the infatuation we want. It’s the survival, the acceptance, the approval ratings, the pleasure. It’s that all-is-right-with-the-world feeling of oneness and omnipotence that comes with infatuation! We’re after all of it; but we want it now, and a relationship that starts with sizzling sex seems like the shortest path. Taking it means feeding our ego, instead of love; but it’s the ego that’s screaming for our attention!
Love is whispering, but it offers everything that infatuation does. And because it has a foundation, it lasts forever.
Shall we listen for love?