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If you’re looking for a partner to spend the rest of your life with and frequently find yourself disenchanted, consider raising the standard. I know, somebody else might suggest you lower it. Somebody else might tell you that you’re being too picky. But you wouldn’t really expect that from me, right?

We like the idea of wowing somebody in a relationship. It feels good! There’s an inherent problem in wowing somebody, though. It’s disenchantment. If he’s stunned by your brilliance, are you going to feel stimulated by his?

And, is he going to help you reach the next level — or encourage complacency? If he’s amazed by your incredible muscle tone, he might not be the rigorous workout partner you’re looking for. If she’s in awe of your pure heart, she’s not apt to discern a weak moment and help you get back on track.

If somebody is too impressed with who you are, beware of his standards. Consider her ability to keep your attention.

Of course, somebody can be wowed, without being wowed across the board. Maybe he’s wowed with your spirit but not your mind. Maybe she’s wowed with your mind but not your body. You might ask yourself what area is most important to you.… More

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Live on a Saturday morning … let’s choose to live on love, to be love. We can do that. … More

It’s amazing what happens when ego doesn’t get in the way of our relationships! We don’t have to be right. We work as a team, and let individual differences strengthen the the team, rather than weaken it. We say fewer words trying to prove something or one-up each other. We drop the facade. We are more productive. We learn and grow. We are better students and better teachers.

We are more honest with ourselves and each other. We are more tolerant, compassionate, and forgiving. We are less anxious, less stressed, more self-assured, more clear, and more responsible.
We know peace and harmony, within and without. We are fearless. We are whole, because love is whole.… More