Why do so many women go for the “bad boy,” or the hard-to-get guy? Because they’re still trying to prove that they’re good enough, still trying to win approval. And they think, “If HE would love me, then I’d know I was okay.”
Note: YES, you can apply this concept to both genders. And you can also apply it to rescue missions, as well as the hard to get.… More
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We all have “deal breakers,” but we don’t all talk about them — or even think about them!
Hey, if we acknowledge them, especially out loud, then we look foolish ignoring them. And sometimes that’s exactly what we prefer to do. It’s tough enough to strike a deal with somebody, right? You might not give much thought to what makes it, let alone what could break it.
But what if denying key elements of what we want is largely responsible for our trying to make something else work and missing out on our bliss?
When you disregard your deal breakers, you disrespect yourself (and somebody else). It feels better than sitting on the sidelines … but only until your relationship tumbles down, yanking all your hopes of happily-ever-after.
“It hurts, but I knew from the beginning there was something missing — I couldn’t see any passion in his eyes … I just had to gather the courage to accept that it couldn’t really work, I NEED passion,” says one client.
Whenever you find the courage to face the truth, be thankful. And communicate it.
“Everyone has ‘deal breakers,’ says Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of the Loveology University and creator of the new Mutual Love Agreement, or MLA, “and the only problem with those deal breakers is when both people in a relationship are not aware of them.”… More
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Don’t use your energy to resist what is. Use your energy to create what you want, starting with what is. … More
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