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Disenchanted with prospective partners?

If you’re looking for a partner and keep finding yourself disenchanted, consider raising the bar. It feels good to WOW somebody! But there’s an inherent problem with that. It’s disenchantment.

If he’s stunned by your brilliance, are you going to feel stimulated by his? Is he going to help you reach the next level or encourage complacency? If she’s amazed by your incredible muscle tone, she might not be the rigorous workout partner you’re looking for. If he’s in awe of your pure heart, he’s not apt to discern a weak moment and help you get back on track.

If somebody is too impressed with you, beware of his standards. Consider her ability to keep your attention.

If you want somebody who will inspire you, don’t look for somebody who’s overly impressed.

The immediate gratification of wowing somebody is a high you inevitably come down from. On the other hand, if you can wow yourself, you’ve got something to hold onto. And probably you’ll have the guts to go for somebody who’s impressed with you but wouldn’t settle for less!

Here’s to being the best we can be!… More

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The Real Fairytale …

We confuse sex with love. But there’s not enough sex to satisfy our need for love. So we’re hooked on sex and hungry for love. Coming home to love IS the fairytale!… More

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You’re up …

Finding somebody to love you is a byproduct of being somebody you love. You hold the power. … More

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Take courage …

We understand Know Thyself to be the cornerstone of philosophy AND learning to love ourself. What makes it the quest of a lifetime is finding the courage to honestly look at all the layers. But we can trust what we find to be beautiful. … More

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YOU …

Seize the moment when you feel the power of you. Act on that power–LOVE–and build undeniable evidence of who you are.… More

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Everybody or nobody …

When I love me, I love everybody. To love me is to know and understand me. When I do, I also know and understand you, the part that’s important, the part we have in common. My essence is your essence.… More

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