Love has no agenda …

When we watch Cinderella, we know before it’s over, that she lives happily ever after with the prince. From the very beginning, that was her destiny. And while your destiny may not be as obvious to you, it is written.

Trust that you are the hero of your own story. Your quest does not make you a hero; rather it reveals you as a hero. You don’t FEEL like the hero, though, until you begin to act like the hero. And, you act like the hero, as you are called on to do what heroes do.

Ahh, and that heroic action is often what we shy away from, because of our human doubts. When we trust what comes next, we displace the doubts. We displace the fear with love.

And THAT is always the hero’s quest. Give your story a name. And remember that you live happily ever after.

Love smiles,… More

When I am true to myself, I am true to Love. And I can trust the consequences of my choices to reflect Love’s perfection. I can trust the pieces of my life to come together and serve my highest good. If I yield to fear, I deviate from Love. I get a different result. I get a lesson that redirects me to Love. Love is still there. And I can choose again.… More

We quit thinking, “If he/she would love me, then I’d know I was okay.” We know we are lovable, and it doesn’t matter if anybody else does.… More

And I can love him the way I’ve always wanted to love somebody, the way he’s always wanted to be loved.… More

Men — and even women — have struggled for centuries to figure out what women want. At times (yes, it’s cyclical), it seems there is no pleasing them with anything.

I could tell you what women want, but it occurs to me that it’s easier to tell you what they don’t want.

Women don’t want a fraidy cat. And the rest is up for grabs — it depends on the woman and her preferences. I know … that’s an unsophisticated response to Freud’s: “Despite my 30 years of research into the feminine soul, I have not been able to answer … the great question that has never been answered: What does a woman want?”

Stay with me, though. If a man’s not afraid, he’s not intimidated by a woman’s intelligence. He appreciates her intuition. He’s not threatened by her emotions, however cyclical; and he’s not embarrassed by his own. He’s strong and vulnerable. He’s true to himself … and that means, according to Shakespeare, he’s true to her. I could rest my case now, but I have another 450 words.

You’ve probably heard how not being afraid of rejection works when you’re selling life insurance. There’s an old story about a man who was offered one dollar for every “no” he got.… More

When we realize that our deep longing for love and oneness cannot be satisfied with the physical, we are left to discover the truth of authentic love within us. … More