Love has no agenda …

When in doubt: If you can’t do it wholeheartedly, you can’t do it in love. Don’t talk yourself into it to save yourself or somebody else! Love is not motivated by fear! … More

To manifest the relationship you long for:
1) Believe in it
2) Act on what you believe
Your faith will grow; and with it, your manifestation.
Start now, and don’t stop. … More

What irritates me in another is often something I refuse to see in myself. If I face it, I can heal my irritated wound! And, perhaps, I will also heal my relationship in the process. … More

When you’re ready for the happily-ever-after, the universe will know it. Until then, indulge in what the universe sends your way to help you get ready! ? ❤️ jd… More

Maslow was right, sex is a basic physiological need. Overrated by most of us? Maybe, BUT it’s still the ultimate in physical gratification! And making love is an opportunity to experience the ultimate in physical AND spiritual gratification! Ah, because lovemaking is a tangible experience of uniting with another person AND God, or all that is! When the God in you unites with the God in another person … and you can revel in both the spiritual and physical evidence of that union, that’s oneness! Yes, it’s temporary; but it’s a moment to hold on to forever! Not everybody has reached the top of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to know and share their self-actualization; but we’re all on our way to experiencing the ultimate mountain top.… More

Sam and I are still learning to bike TOGETHER. I’m still learning to bike! So, he’s the leader. It took me a while, but I started thinking it would be easier, if he paid more attention to me (that’s telling, right?). Maybe he could give me a heads-up when he was about to slow down, or turn. I am, after all, still wobbly, leary of traffic, and trying to figure out how to stop and get a foot on the ground before I fall. Then, duh! I realized that I could pay more attention to HIM! Turned out, if I backed away from him a little bit, I could see him slowing down, and even know when he was preparing to slow down by watching his legs! And, who knew, I could see him turn before I had to turn! This is NOT a story about how to bike. I don’t know how to bike. This is a story about how to live. Always consider your role, before critiquing somebody else’s!… More