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Jan Denise, author, speaker, relationships & self-worth consultant

Love has no agenda …

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Happy Labor Day!

Following my passion to write has been the self-therapy I needed to really know and share my true self. And that has been rewarded with finding my “happily ever after” with a partner!

Nineteen years ago, I quit my corporate job to write full time, and amassed a stack of rejection letters. A friend’s husband suggested I contact the local times. I happened to serve on the United Way’s board with the publisher of the local newspaper, The Gainesville Sun. I called him and left a message. He returned my call leaving a name and number for me to call. Eventually, the local paper launched my column “Naked Relationships,” which was later picked up by Creators Syndicate. It ran for ten years; and Hampton Roads published my book under the same title, “Naked Relationships … sharing your authentic self to find the partner of your dreams.” My last book, “Innately Good,” was published by HCI, Health Communications Inc. I haven’t met with much commercial success; but I am grateful, with no regrets. Turns out, when you follow your passion, the financial rewards don’t matter so much!

And it seems fitting today to pay tribute to those who have done what they could find to do with true integrity, and a deep knowing that that was enough!… More

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As you become real …

We know that our best effort to have the relationship of our dreams begins within. Imagine being the person of your dreams. ACT on becoming that person, which is no more than becoming YOU, your true self. As you become real, so will the relationship of your dreams! … More

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Is the truth so simple–or so hard–that we bypass it?

We know that our best effort to change the world starts within. Peace can come only as we ACT on what we know. Imagine a world in which each of us did the necessary inside work. Not only would we have peace, love would reign supreme in our hearts and in our world, as each of us grew into our very best self.… More

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Shortcut to knowing how well somebody will love you …

SHORTCUT to knowing how well he/she will love you: Look at how well he loves himself–not how well he appears to love his mother, his kids, or anybody else. If he does more for others than he does for himself, what he does is tainted (perhaps by obligation, agenda, guilt, or desire to escape his own needs). How well does he love himself? Does he show respect for his body, mind, and spirit? Does he nurture all three of them? Does he respond to his own needs? He can only love you as well as he loves himself!… More

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Let your heart lead …

Let the heart lead. It’s more decisive than the mind (without shoulds and should-nots); and it knows anything is possible! … More

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The fairytale pilgrimage …

Let’s start at the beginning, with once upon a time. Let’s feel a new born’s attunement with his mother. Look in on a child as he latches on to a security blanket to cope with fear and rejection. See an adult reinforcing that blanket and shaping it into a suit of armor to win approval. And finally, let’s imagine an authentic spiritual being free of fear, exposed, but invulnerable! That’s when the prince (or princess) appears–when he is no longer “needed.” … More

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