We can be so consumed by a relationship that we don’t seem to have time for anything else. And we can get so caught up in pleasing a partner that we lose sight of our own needs and desires. We can forget who we are.

BUT in a healthy relationship, both individuals have a safe place to probe deeper into who they are, to know and share more substance. They have a safe place to be vulnerable, to face their fears, to overcome their fears, and grow into a purer, fuller version of their authentic self.

In doing so, they deepen their intimacy and purify their love. And, they enliven their lives with freedom and joy. … More

25 years later, I revisited short hair. The first photo, taken by a professional photographer, was the author headshot for my first book, “Naked Relationships: Sharing your authentic self to find the partner of your dreams.” Just having fun with the second one. And feeling grateful to be this old and still feel this young. Thanks to John for suggesting the cut and taking the photo. … More

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