Passion — or erotic attraction — enlivens us. The singing birds drown out the alarm clock. The sun shines through the clouds. We are the sun, and the moon and the stars!

Passion seems too good to be true. And it is…well, not really; it just can’t stand alone very long.

We can’t hold on to passion without intimacy, because by itself passion starts to feel empty. It doesn’t stand up in the face of life’s challenges. When illness strikes or a job loss threatens the roof over our heads, passion doesn’t seem nearly as important as it did when we were craving physical gratification.

The problem is when we add intimacy to give passion a foundation, passion eventually seems to fizzle out. Truth is — it’s tough to hold on to passion, with or without intimacy!

Passion is fueled by mystery. And intimacy means getting to know all about each other, understanding fears and dreams, seeing and hearing and smelling and tasting what makes us human. Daily life can ride roughshod over intrigue…and, yes, passion.

Of course, we can just forego passion. But then we no longer have perfect love…and what we do have can be threatened by the lure of passion.… More

I see you. I know you. I love you. Because … I see me, I know me, I love me. And we share the same essence.

When we struggle to love somebody, it’s because we focus on their behavior, rather than their essence. But we are not called to condone their behavior. We are called to love them, regardless of their behavior. May we shift our focus and consider what it looks like to love, instead. May we let love prevail.… More

Walking lunges … no machine, no weights, just the burn. Simple works for me. Happy Saturday! … More